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Thursday, March 13, 2008
The Bitter Pill
Originally written: Monday, February 13, 2006
The Bitter Pill
Most of the time, we often forget that other people have feelings too and can easily get hurt by some things that we might carelessly or unintentionally say. That is why, the best advise (next to not falling in love LOL) I can give, seriously, is: Always place yourself in other people's shoes.
Before you say and do anything, always think what the other people would feel if you would be the receiver or the recipient of the letter or action that you are planning. Would it hurt you too? Would you like it? Would you be offended by it?
Then, if you have done something not nice for anyone, then you should be ready to accept whatever things that person will do to you. If you have been saying unkind things to anyone, then don't be surprise if she will retaliate. It's human nature. You are just getting a dose of your own medicine. And yes, it’s always a bitter and unpleasant experience.
The Bitter Pill
Most of the time, we often forget that other people have feelings too and can easily get hurt by some things that we might carelessly or unintentionally say. That is why, the best advise (next to not falling in love LOL) I can give, seriously, is: Always place yourself in other people's shoes.
Before you say and do anything, always think what the other people would feel if you would be the receiver or the recipient of the letter or action that you are planning. Would it hurt you too? Would you like it? Would you be offended by it?
Then, if you have done something not nice for anyone, then you should be ready to accept whatever things that person will do to you. If you have been saying unkind things to anyone, then don't be surprise if she will retaliate. It's human nature. You are just getting a dose of your own medicine. And yes, it’s always a bitter and unpleasant experience.
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